arab guys... and love

I was once walking with a good friend of mine… and she was reflecting upon Arab guys and how they fall in love…
I thought she had a very interesting analogy…
She told me the next story…
[[a guy is walking and he sees a nice girl walking barefoot… he runs after her… walks with her and then tell her that he loves her… because she is different than the rest of the girls… she is bold for walking barefoot… and he loves her so much and wants to be with her for the rest of his life… and as she accepts him and let him be near her and walk with her… he begins to change… one day he comes and tells her that he loves the fact that she is different but that people keep looking at her because she is barefoot… and as time go by he starts pressurizing her… telling her to try and wear a shoe for a change… and so on and so forth… so either the girl would listen to him and change for him and be normal… or if the girl is strong enough and doesn’t change so her guy would leave her… ]]

I think this is really interesting… and though some people might say… not all Arab guys are like that… but let us face it… most of the times… what makes the guy attracted to the girl… ends up the reason why he leaves her afterwards…